Take one step at a time

By Uale Tofilau 13 April 2025, 5:59PM

Being a student can be really hard. There’s homework, tests, group projects, chores at home, sports, church duties, family expectations, and so much more. Some days, it can feel like the world is pushing down on your shoulders. You might smile and say you’re okay, but deep down you’re feeling tired, stressed, and ready to give up.

Stress has a sneaky way of tracking us down. It starts small, maybe a late assignment or a missed deadline. Then slowly, it builds up until it feels like everything is crashing down. You might start to feel overwhelmed, like there’s not enough time in the day or not enough energy left in your body. And that’s completely normal. You’re human.

But here’s a humble reminder: take everything one step at a time. You don’t need to do everything all at once. Trying to do too much in one go can make things worse. Instead, focus on one task, then the next. Break your workload into smaller pieces. That way, it’s easier to manage and you won’t feel so lost.

And if it ever feels like too much, pause. Get up, step outside, take a deep breath, or go for a short walk. Sometimes, you just need a moment away to calm your thoughts and breathe in peace. Nature, silence, or even a bit of music can help reset your mind. When you come back, you’ll be more ready to keep going.

Most importantly, don’t stay silent. If you’re struggling, talk to someone you trust. It could be a friend, a sibling, a parent, a teacher, or someone who truly listens and understands. Sharing your feelings doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re smart enough to know when you need help. You don’t have to go through it alone.

If it ever feels like your plate is too full, reach out for help before it’s too late. There’s no shame in asking for support. We all need it sometimes, and some people care about you and want to help you succeed, not just in school, but in life too.

So, to every student reading this:

You are not alone.

You are doing your best.

And your best is enough.

Take things slowly. Take things one at a time. Be kind to yourself, because you deserve peace too

By Uale Tofilau 13 April 2025, 5:59PM
Samoa Observer

Upgrade to Premium

Subscribe to
Samoa Observer Online

Enjoy unlimited access to all our articles on any device + free trial to e-Edition. You can cancel anytime.

>